Small issues and our Psychological Well being (Mother Version)
We usually do not share small things that bother us. Well, yes even I do not! Blogs have always been my go-to, to share my feelings. But not everyone would have a source to talk to or share their feelings. Small things and our mental health (Mom Edition)
Let me talk about myself first, (as I said blogs have always been my space to share my feelings)
Mental Health Mom Edition:
As a mother, we want to give the best for our kids and family. But some of the others would go wrong sometimes, no matter how careful we are. And it’s Normal!! Kids are bound to have meltdowns and sometimes it takes on.
We as mothers can easily get carried away by our heavy emotions and we can have melt-downs. In my earlier blogs, I have talked about Mom’s Mental Health and it is a fact that this is not as discussed as this should be.
I mostly have major meltdowns when kids cry continuously (this is not a complaint) but just from a mother’s perspective. I constantly feel I am failing no matter how much I do. Do you (parents) feel the same?
Yes, I sometimes scold them if it’s a major mistake, and sometime later I take them close and explain them too. Do I have the mom’s guilt? Yes, very much!! I feel so bad at the end of the day for raising my voice on them. But is it not important that we be strict with them not rigid but strict?
Most moms are being criticized for being strict with the set of rules they set for kids (kid’s rules are always according to kid’s age) I feel being a mom, sticking to a routine helps kids to adopt the change. We cannot expect a miracle overnight, though.
Comment and let me know mom guilt and parent guilt are real! How do you deal with it?
Mental Health Mom Edition
Comments would help me and other parents deal with guilt.
‘This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla.’
You can also read my other posts of Mom Edition:
Be that Xtra! The Ultimate Mom Boss
Quit having Mom Guilt